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Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Haven on Earth



We built our own house in Chennai, on the East Coast Road (on the way to Pondicherry) near a village called Uthandi. The house is situated in one of the lanes heading towards the sea, still an unpaved road. Only a few houses are around, it’s still a quiet, uninhabited neighbourhood.


The design of the house was inspired by an architect friend V, whose team later helped in the execution of this dream house. With my close supervision (and I’s occasional, timely engineering inputs) we completed the house in eighteen months.


The house was built within a thicket of Casuarina trees. Though we’d encouraged these trees to grow for years, and tried to still maintain them, many had to be cut down from time to time to make room for other fruit varieties to grow. A huge one was felled only last year to make room for a swimming pool. The lemon tree gave us the most beautiful lemons almost all year-round. It was a true pleasure sharing this yield of the land with friends. Despite being a seaside plot the coconut palms somehow did not do well, probably due to incompatibility with the casuarinas!


An expanse of a huge Yellow flame tree covered most of the garden, providing lots of shade. The canary-yellow flowers of this tree present a breath-taking view in summer. While still fresh, they fall on the ground, forming a radiant carpet of bright gold on the green ‘shade’ grass.


The greenery around attracted many birds. Kingfishers, Hoopoes, Bulbuls, Drongos, Tree Pies, Mynas, Koels, Crow Pheasants , Doves and Green Bee Eaters were frequent visitors, though aside from these regulars there were others, including the Babblers and Crows (scavenging around and often fighting, creating a real racket among themselves). On 2 rare occasions A and I also sighted a Golden Oriole!


The house gets its character (and charm) from the various roofs covered with terracotta Kerala tiles, which are moss-resistant and heat-reflective, suited for the hot and humid climate of Chennai. The beams, rafters and pillars which form the skeleton for the roofs in the verandah are made of Padak wood, which is locally available and the best all-round option after teak. This wood is red in colour, and we therefore painted it dark green … to contrast with the terracotta tiles and the red ceramic flooring (as viewable in the photographs). The walls of the house are white, but adorned with a deep yellow in places, again to complement the other colours.


The two verandahs running along the living area of the house converge into a bigger verandah space. This extention of the house became our most favourite haunt … we had our morning cups of tea or coffee here, reflected or listened to music, spent time with the dogs, entertained friends and family here, and this was the place from where we watched all the winged friends that visited. In the silence of the night, sitting here we could often also hear the sea in the distance.












To the east of the house is the sea, the Bay of Bengal … a glimpse of which one can get from our terrace. Though the casuarina grove on one side and the new lot of houses on the other allowed only a glimpse of it, the good news was that these acted as natural filters to the corrosive sea-breeze, thus reducing deterioration to our home appliances!


The beach is actually a 5-minute walk from the house. Many of our evening walks were along this beach, and fishing boats, nets, fish drying on the sand were common sights ... but sometimes the plastic and lack of cleanliness was a put-off, and worse, the sight of villagers squatting along the water-line relieving themselves would take all the fun out of it. Anyway, the moods of the waves and the sea breeze … helped you forget all these sights.


We lived in this house for nearly 5 years, with short trips to Chennai in the last 2 years as by then we’d started a home in Dubai, then regretfully deciding to lease it out last year. But we’d spent Quality time there with the family, it was a major milestone in our lives, a really wonderful phase and we all miss it a lot.


I must say it was the most fulfilling experience of my life so far. Usually one would hear the elders say it’s a job organising a wedding or building a house. It’s true, one can only know what it takes by experiencing it.


This was not just a house with walls and beams but our home made of love and dreams.



Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Eid Musings


----- Preparations, frantic shopping after the Eid moon sighting is announced

----- Early morning Eid prayers

----- Starched white kurtas and churidar pajamas, topis

----- Colourful outfits of silk and satin with glitter of zari , zardozi , makaish and gotta work

----- Henna decorated hands with intricate designs, deep orange

----- Oodh and loban infusing into the space of all the rooms

----- Agarbattis / incense sticks

----- Sheerkhorma and seviyan full of goodness of milk , nuts and saffron

----- Colourful cut flowers

----- Jasmine gajras

----- Ittar … a drop enough to last for the Day

----- Greetings and embraces all day long

----- Laughter and chatter of kids after receiving Eidi

----- A hearty lunch with the wonderful aromas of Hyderabadi biryani, kababs, dum ka murgh and a list of other goodies

----- Paan, chikni supari, elaichi in small silver plates

----- Expression of satisfaction and achievement on faces of those who fasted the whole month

----- SMS and phone calls to and from those far and near

----- Friends and family relaxing together

Eid for me has always been all these wonderful things ….. each year it is the same festival but still it brings fresh excitement and happiness one looks forward to.

EID MUBARAK TO ALL!!!!!

Friday, September 3, 2010

For Body and Soul


Ramadan is the holiest month of the Islamic calendar, the month when the Holy Quran was revealed to the Prophet Mohammad (PBUH). It is a month of prayer and reflection, fasting and abstinence. And trying for self-improvement?!

I am not very religious but Ramadan is one time I do feel spiritually inclined and I think this has a lot to do with fasting. Keeping fasts is not just about physically showing your devotion, but serves to purify the soul and remind us of the people who are not so well off. Giving us a chance to appreciate the blessing bestowed on us. Fasting demands a lot of self-control and discipline so one has to make a few changes in daily routine. Just giving up food from dawn to dusk is only one aspect but trying to modify our behavior, thought and action for the better is the other and one does have to make a conscious effort, and ideally, continue with this even after the month is over.

The other benefits of fasting are that it is supposed to detoxify the body, get rid of extra fat, keep blood pressure normal and maintain a good cholesterol level. These health benefits are a real bonus.

The other requirements of Ramadan are Taraweeh and Zakat (charity). By donating to Charity and good causes it is a timely opportunity to spread happiness and joy to those who are in need.

One starts the fast at Suhoor (the pre-dawn meal). After a light meal this is the best time for praying or reciting the Quran. (I must mention I am reading the English translation which I can understand, because earlier I used to read it in Arabic without understanding a word. Now I even go online often for the Arabic simultaneous recitation and translation http://tanzil.info/). This is my favourite time. The world outside is still and having just woken up, your mind is clear and in best shape for some meditation. This is the time one is truly alone with oneself. This time after the Fajr prayer is a truly enriching experience, setting the tone for the day.

Iftar (evening meal, after sunset) is time to be with family and friends. I prefer to stay at home and eat and relax. This year one has not attended many Iftar parties. Food is the highlight of many Iftars. A variety of dishes are made so there is a tendency to over-eat, but here again the key is to show some control. Nowadays with lavish parties, feasting, watching movies all night, the essence of Ramadan is lost. It is meant to be an austere month and such lavishness has no place in religion. These are recent fads, probably more by people who can manage to sleep this off during the day.

Ramadan is about to end. The last one-third of the month is very significant, during this part of Ramadan extra prayers are recommended, and the "Laylat ul Qadr" (The Night of Power, when the Quran was revealed) is said to be on one of the odd-numbered days in the last 10 days.

Many prayers are said all over the world during this period. The thought itself is inspiring. I hope whatever good comes out of this month is carried forward for the rest of the year.

I pray for more tolerance in our lives, peace everywhere, and especially for the people and children affected by the floods in Pakistan.